Understanding Sibling Rivalry: A Psychological Perspective on the Family Dynamics of Yakub in Surah Yusuf

Karunia Akbar Rahman; Alfiyatul Azizah

doi:10.15408/quhas.v12i2.36410

Understanding Sibling Rivalry: A Psychological Perspective on the Family Dynamics of Yakub in Surah Yusuf

Karunia Akbar Rahman, Alfiyatul Azizah

Abstract

Sibling rivalry is a common problem in families, often fuelled by a lack of parental affection and feelings of inequality. Gen-Z, who are more sensitive, are more prone to this problem. Many cases in recent times of bullying and mistreatment of siblings. The Qur'an illustrates this phenomenon as a guide with the story of Ya'kub's family in Surah Yusuf. This study aims to understand the factors and consequences of this conflict as well as propose solutions through a psychological approach to overcome it.The results of this study identified four stages of Qur'anic discourse relating to sibling rivalry in Surah Yusuf. From a psychological perspective, preventing competition between siblings can be achieved through internal factors such as fostering a sense of good competition and patience, and external factors such as parents providing justice, care, affection, and not comparing with others.

Keywords

siblings rivalry, yusuf, ya'kub family, parenting

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