HUKUM CHILDFREE MENURUT PANDANGAN ISLAM
Abstract
Di era yang semakin modern dewasa ini, pemikiran manusia kian berkembang pesat. Baik dari segi teknologi, industri, lingkungan hidup, agama, dan sosial. Dari bidang humaniora, belakangan ini sempat viral di jagat media sosial sebuah pemikiran dan gerakan yang mengatakan bahwa menikah tidak harus mempunyai anak, memiliki anak atau tidak adalah hak pasangan tersebut, yang disebut dengan “childfree”. Hal ini menuai pro dan kontra di kalangan masyarakat Indonesia, karena bertolak belakang dengan kultur, norma dan agama yang berlaku di masyarakat Indonesia. Dalam penelitian ini dirumuskan permasalahan diantaranya , bagaimana pandangan hukum Islam tentang childfree? Bagaimana tujuan pernikahan dan konsep tanâsul dalam Islam? Adapun tujuan diadakannya penelitian ini adalah untuk mengetahui bagaimana hukum Islam memandang paham childfree dalam perspektif Tujuan Pernikahan dan Konsep Tanâsul (berketurunan).
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